It is almost one full year. I am willing to wait a bit longer for her, but if I don’t hear from her very soon, I am completely gone (there’s just barely a thread holding us together now…) and will never look back. The issue is that I don’t know if she is coming or not. So, why would I waste my life waiting for someone who is never coming? . . . I won’t. If at least she called and said “can we talk?” I’d know that she is interested in exploring the possibility of some sort of relationship. In all of the time that I’ve known her, she has given me absolutely no reason to think she may be interested and available.
But she needs to tell me (or show me) that she is interested. I’m not looking for anything long-term, but at least, we need to talk and figure out what is happening between us coz maybe nothing is.