You Feel Me?

Things come into your life when you decide to go for it. I would add to this woman’s teaching points [in the video below] that making the decision, is more about committing than simple decision making. The issue is that some of us are fearful of committing. Maybe we committed to something (or someone) in the past and that thing or person subsequently abandoned us.

The emotional wound created by the abandonment, if not processed and healed leaves us unable to commit (out of fear of being hurt again) and therefore unable to make that critical decision (should I go for this new thing/person). Being unable to decide then leaves us stuck with no way out and feeling trapped. The answer: get help healing the old wounds that have not healed.

Yes, you are enough. You are complete. It is the outside world telling you otherwise. Look to your heart to find yourself.

Find then release any guilt, shame, anger, resentment, fear, grief, jealousy or envy. If you are in darkness, look for the Light. Then go to it. The Light will not come to you. The Light is just there, not moving. But it will not stay forever. You must prove that you want a relationship with the Light. Make the effort. It is worth it.

One of my most favorite healing music videos….

Being alone is a very peaceful life. Take it from someone who has been alone (by choice) for 29 years now. And, for the 10 years leading up to my divorce, I really had no relationship with my wife. I tell you this not for sympathy but to make the point that truly, all we have is ourself. We all need to be comfortable with ourselves, first and foremost.

But you also need determination. No matter what you want, you can have it. Yes, you can change your entire life. Yes, you can change who you are. But, it takes steady hard work and NO QUIT! (discipline + determination = success.)

“Only you, can cure my desire… oh, oh, oh, I’m on fire.” 🦀